Kenneth J. Stallings, Jr., (Kokayi) a beacon of warmth and wisdom, began his journey on September 21, 1980, in Augusta, Georgia. He was brought into the world by Miriam and the late Kenneth Stallings, Sr. On May 27, 2024, Kenneth answered the Lord’s call, leaving behind a legacy that will echo through the lives he touched.

Kenneth’s faith was a guiding light throughout his life. As a member of Tabernacle Baptist Church, he dedicated himself to service through the youth choir, Welcoming Ministry, and Sunday School. His vision and leadership led to the renaming of the youth choir to P.B.T.S. (Protected by the Savior Choir), a symbol of his commitment to nurturing the spiritual growth of young minds.

Kenneth’s early years were defined by a passion for learning and a dedication to his community. A proud graduate of A. R. Johnson Health Science and Engineering Magnet High School in 1998, he continued his educational pursuits at Georgia State University, earning a Bachelor’s degree in African American Studies and a Master’s degree in Public Administration. Never one to rest on his laurels, Kenneth furthered his academic achievements with a second Master’s degree in Educational Leadership from Clayton State University. During his time at Georgia State, Kenneth became a beloved figure on campus, donning the costume of “Pounce,” the university’s mascot, and bringing joy to countless students and fans. His commitment to brotherhood and heritage was evident in his active membership in KMT Asen, Inc. (Kemet African Fraternity), where he forged lifelong bonds.

It was also during his time at Georgia State University that Kenneth became involved with the National Council for Black Studies.  After graduating he maintained a prominent role with the organization. Starting the 2019 conference in New Orleans, LA, NCBS had the immense pleasure of having Kokayi (as he was known to NCBS) on the conference staff team. He fulfilled the crucial roles of conference IT and photographer, overseeing AV equipment for the concurrent sessions and immortalizing conference moments through his photography. Many of Kokayi’s photos grace the pages of the NCBS website.

Kenneth’s professional journey was a testament to his love for nurturing young minds. Beginning as a teacher at Kilombo Academic & Cultural Institute, he quickly became a cherished member of the Leadership team and the creative force behind School Fundraiser Calendar. His career flourished as he took on the role of Director of the Clayton County Area of Upward Bound at Atlanta Metro College, and later, Associate Director for Trio Talent Search & Upward Bound with Community Teen Coalition. Kenneth’s mentorship and guidance impacted the lives of countless students, fostering a generation of young leaders.

As a devoted father, Kenneth’s love for his children, RD and EVE, was beyond measure. Whether volunteering at Barack Obama Technology Magnet School, chaperoning field trips, or capturing memories as the school photographer, Kenneth’s presence was a source of joy and support. He instilled in his children the values of respect, honesty, good manners, and self-love, nurturing their growth with unwavering dedication.

Kenneth’s sense of humor and joy for life were infectious, just like his smile. He had an incredible ability to make people laugh and feel cherished. His love for his mother, sister, and extended family was profound, and he was a pillar of support and strength for them all.  Kenneth J. Stallings, Jr. will forever be remembered for his boundless generosity, his commitment to education, and his deep love for his family and community. His spirit continues to shine brightly in the hearts of all who were fortunate enough to know him.